Elijah Nicolle

Photosource: Google Most of us are struggling to show up, in this society full of pretentious and judgemental people.  There has been a large wall between the lives of straight people and the LGBTQ people. There has always been an issue that men are more productive and more powerful than women.  There has been a discrimination in skin color, because they believed that having a fair skin is way much prettier than those other skin types. There has been a real discrimination between the social status in the society, even in jobs!  There has always been an ISSUE for EVERYTHING around.  I don't know but it is the the way of thinking of people, who's being toxicated by the society. They tend to believe in what is believed by many.  Some are just easily manipulated by those trends, that they begin stereotyping.  Like hey? Can we just accept one another? And let other people live their lives with freedom and away from judgements?  If you're a gay, fine its ok, you are

photosource:Pinterest Valentines, sometimes mispronounced as "Valentimes".   Surprises here, dating there, couple's everywhere .  It's the time to brag how romantic you are when it comes to relationships.  "What did you plan for your partner? How will you surprise her?" "Did you prepare boquet of flowers? chocolates?" It's so heart warming to receive like those kinds of gifts, or surprises for someone you love. The efforts and the "I love you's", will make you fall in love with your partner more . It will make you feel really so special for a day. It's just so so full of love during the Valentine's day.   But Valentine's Day nowadays is seemed to be misleaded by people .   The society seemed to set standards on how Valentine's day should  be celebrated. So it tends to pressure those who can't afford extravagant surprises for their partners.  It tends to pressure every relationships to become flashy

Photosource:Pinterest You know it may took you a while to finally heal....  Uh? Whether from a past relationship? or from losing someone you love?  Moving on ... It's really difficult, and it's a super long process, but it is one astonishing achievement when you passed through it.  You know, you'll encounter so many cold sleepless nights. You'll often cry to sleep. You'll often breakdown everywhere because it seems that everything reminds you of that someone you've  lost. You've just lost your whole self, because that someone keeps on hanging in there and consuming all of your system. It sucks. It really suuucks. It's just so unfair that while you're there still suffering, that someone is out there living his life like there's nothing happened. And the most difficult part is you tend to pretend that you're okay, because you don't want to bother your family, friends, or other people, of what you are struggling. So you keep it a

Photosource:Pinterest  "I wonder what will happen to me in the future" "Will I reach my goals?"  "Will I be hired and get a stable life I've always wanted?" "Will things goes well as how I planned it?" Those are just some of the questions I ask myself these days. My mind always wander about the mystery of my future.  I'm always curious about it. At this age, I also have so many insecurities just like a typical teen. We can't just help but to compare ourselves sometimes into other people who has the same age with us, and living their lives with such great achievements. It's like we are being left behind because at this moment of life, we still have nothing to be proud of, we still have nothing to brag about. We still haven't been successful in our own lives.  During our 20's I know most of us will experience this kind of pressure, or should I say it is really true to all. It is the age of worrying a lot about ou

Photosource:Pinterest  In order to love and accept who you are, you must not hate nor regret experiences that shaped you. For I know those experiences really pushed you to your limits, and challenged you a big time as a human being, but remember that this things are essential in order for you to grow. No matter how bad it is, no matter how much it hurt you, no matter how devastating it was, its part of our life, it is part of growing up and if you learn to learn from those things you will just notice how eager you are to improve and to make changes within yourself physically, psychologically, or emotionally.    The power of acceptance is true, and if you learn the language of it surely you will master self love.  Today, those two words is what we lack among ourselves. "Self love" because nowadays we tend to give more of ourselves to others. We tend to rely into others. We tend to always want to satisfy their needs, their expectations towards us, and we tend to