Boiling point

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In life you will encounter a lot of people who will test your patience, until they prove everyone that you're wrong. 

I don't know why, but i am telling you... if you encounter one of those kind of people, never ever tolerate them. Coz' the more you react, the more they will trigger you. Their goal is to piss you off, until you get so furious and frustrated. Everybody knows what can happen when a certain person is super mad... They tend to do and say things too much, that is out of their minds.  And when you reach that boiling point, they will be so satisfied, because they think they won, but they actually don't. 

If you tolerate them you'll just experience loop of your own emotions, that is so useless. You'll just look like a loser, even if you're not.

 So what you need to do,  is to ignore, and don't give them a damn. But did you noticed, when you ignore them, they tend to become more aggressive?? It is because they are not getting what they want from you, they want you to commit a mistake, to proclaim themselves a winner, but when you just shake their issues off, they will become so triggered and frustrated. Pity for them. Don't be afraid of the rumors that might spread, just remember the people who know you better than them, is all that matters.

 Protect your peace and dignity, because sometimes not fighting back doesn't always mean that you're weak, it sometimes mean that, you just know how to control yourself, way better than them, and you are just matured enough not to waste your precious time and energy on pointless and useless arguments with other people. It also means that, you are just good enough to understand why they are acting so pathetic, because they doesn't even know where they are coming from, or maybe, toxicity just became their habit.

 We don't know why. So break the chain. Always break the chain. If you are caught up in that kind of situation and you feel you are about to reach your boiling point... breathe, calm yourself up, and choose to ignore.

Just don't give them the damn thing that they want. Remember you get what you tolerate.  Do not satisfy them.

Always remember that, you don't need to explain yourself, if you invest your time, and attention to those people who believes in you and to those people who knows the real whole you. Always maintain your cool. Protect your peace at all cost. It's more worth it. 

xoxo