Nobody can't drag us down.

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Have you ever experienced planning something but you loose the confidence to execute it?

  Like you are planning to start up a business for example. You are so excited at the same time nervous because it is your first time starting a business, and you're starting from scratch, and so because of that, you need to seek for the opinion of other people, you need to know their insights or motivation perhaps, from this thing you are planning, but the moment you asked them, you just suddenly lose the feeling of excitement, and confidence, because they said "Oh good to know, but i think, sooner or later you might get bankrupt" , "Are you sure you'll get profit by that?" , "What if you don't get any customers?" , " I think your business will fail eventually, because you already have a lot of competitors out there"...

 After you hear that, those things will probably keep on echoing in your mind, and you'll question yourself, "what's their freaking problem?" You haven't started anything yet, but there they are, judging you first hand, about what your business outcome will be, and what will happen next? You'll start to have second thoughts, whether to still pursue your business or not. Why? Because you got toxicated by their opinions.

 

You better not ask or inform them, the next time huh?

You know sometimes people tend to degrade you, people tend to judge you. They tend to not to believe in you, and they tend to think negatively, about your plans, because they are shoving the things that they want, to you, because you have the resources to do that, and they maybe don't, that is why, they want you to obey what they say, and they kinda like mandating you to reject your own plans.

So toxic right?

I can't explain why, but there will always be people who will hinder your success. They will always, try to drag you down. 

So learn, rationalize, and be courageous.   

Sometimes, you don't need to ask for  other people's opinion, to take risk on something, or to start something, because sometimes if you do, they just tend to let you feel down, and lose your confidence about your plans. 

 Explore and prove it yourself. Always think that, you can do it. 

Of course there will always be ups and downs in life, even in business, and studies, but choose to be brave and continue to fight for your own victory.

Even if other people might seem to belittle you, learn to still clap for their achievements, be it big or small. Everyone has their own time to shine, yes, but don't wait for the perfect time, it won't come. Everytime is a perfect time to start. Just humble yourself up, hustle, focus, try and try. If you fall seven times, the stand up eight, show the world that you can. Start your journey to success, now! :)

xoxo