Love is not enough


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What do we do to sustain our relationship

How do we keep our bond? 

How to keep the fire burning?

It suck that we tend to end everything up when we experienced some life fucking situations. 

Does the number of how long you've been together equate love? Hell NO. 

Does miscommunications, arguments equate LOVE? Hell NO. 

Love is not always about kisses, roses, and butterflies. 

Face the reality itself. 

As you grow, your love will also grow in so many different ways, it's a matter of how long you want to choose each other. 

It's a matter of how will you gonna help each other overcome that life fucking situations to come up with a solution.

 Grow on your own. 

Growing on your own is different from growing together, but growing on your own doesn't mean that you're abandoning each other, you cannot always depend yourself to your better half, you should also learn how to grow on your own.

 If you'll both want to work your relationship out, then you'll really work out, 'coz love must come easy if you really do love each other, but love is not enough to overcome things that are happening around us in the real world. 

So take time to ponder. 

-ofelijahnicolle, xoxo

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