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You need a break...

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photo source:  https://pin.it/6GXzTaq When you find yourself so overwhelmed about everything around you, stop and breathe for while. It's ok to pause, and disappear for a moment in order for you to compose yourself again. You don't need to be hard on yourself because can't you see? the world is already being hard on you, why make yourself suffer more?Don't be so indifferent with your life.  Free yourself from the chaos of the world, and seek for your peace, because you know sometimes peacefulness will not always come from other people, it always come within us. True happiness will not always come from other people because our own happiness will always depends on how happy we want us to be. Everything will always be our choice. Everything will always depend on our decision. We cannot force something that doesn't works for us, so if you find yourself so overwhelmed by everything around you slow down, and temporarily distance yourself from others. When you find yourse...

She's just a girl. She's just a woman.

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Photosource: Pinterest Girl.  Woman. How do you describe a girl? How do you describe a woman? They say ah, "She's just a girl."  "Just a woman." "They have so many soft features, they are weak."   Oh really? You know what? You are a girl more than what you and they think. You are a woman,more than having soft features, and being weak. BLAH BLAH. I'm not being obsessed with feminism here but feminism doesn't always make the women strong, it is about tapping everyone to change their way of perceiving the world. Because as you notice? Before, women are being treated so unfair. They can't rule because they are weak. They can't lead, and the only thing they can do is to serve. Serve their husband, serve their children, and be every men's source of entertainment.  So as a woman I question myself, why is it  like that? Is it because men are more masculine than women, so does that mean they are much more stronger?  Maybe in appe...

Love, Self.

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Photosource:Pinterest  In order to love and accept who you are, you must not hate nor regret experiences that shaped you. For I know those experiences really pushed you to your limits, and challenged you a big time as a human being, but remember that this things are essential in order for you to grow. No matter how bad it is, no matter how much it hurt you, no matter how devastating it was, its part of our life, it is part of growing up and if you learn to learn from those things you will just notice how eager you are to improve and to make changes within yourself physically, psychologically, or emotionally.    The power of acceptance is true, and if you learn the language of it surely you will master self love.  Today, those two words is what we lack among ourselves. "Self love" because nowadays we tend to give more of ourselves to others. We tend to rely into others. We tend to always want to satisfy their needs, their expectations towards us, a...