She's just a girl. She's just a woman.

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Girl. 

Woman.

How do you describe a girl?

How do you describe a woman?

They say ah,

"She's just a girl." 

"Just a woman."

"They have so many soft features, they are weak."

 

Oh really? You know what? You are a girl more than what you and they think.
You are a woman,more than having soft features, and being weak. BLAH BLAH.

I'm not being obsessed with feminism here but feminism doesn't always make the women strong, it is about tapping everyone to change their way of perceiving the world. Because as you notice? Before, women are being treated so unfair. They can't rule because they are weak. They can't lead, and the only thing they can do is to serve. Serve their husband, serve their children, and be every men's source of entertainment. 

So as a woman I question myself, why is it  like that? Is it because men are more masculine than women, so does that mean they are much more stronger? 

Maybe in appearance, but you know woman doesn't need to become masculine in order to  be called a STRONG WOMAN. 

They are strong enough without giving a damn.

 Now they can do what a man can do, and sometimes they can do it better than men. 

Women have just proved it, that they are not just a girl or a woman, and the world must see that.

But sad truth is, some of the woman themselves can't see that. 

They can't see how powerful they are, how strong they are, and how worthy they are. So many people take advantage of them. Owning and manipulating them for one's sake and happiness, but not them.

Sometimes they are being abused without them knowing. 

It's so sad to see a girl or a woman giving all of her to someone who doesn't deserve it,  her love, her efforts, and even her whole self. 

Girl wake up! Your are WORTHY. 

And when someone out there doesn't see that... LEAVE.

Save yourself while its not too late. Why waste your time to someone who always hurt you? Why waste your tears to someone who makes you feel so unlove? Why pour your genuinenes to someone who is not faithful or genuine with you? 

You know love must come easy, it's normal to be hurt sometimes or to argue sometimes, but look at the mirror. Reflect... if that love only bothers you because of the repeated sorry's and series of mistakes, and only makes you feel frightened, insecure, stressed, and only satisfy the other party's needs?! Come on girl I am tellng you, I've been through that, so wake the hell up, and save yourself. 

Know your worth. Know that you are enough. 

Protect yourself by having the courage to leave in situations that only consumes most of you. 

Everything must be equal. You can't love more than your partner, it should be equal. You can't use your rights , and power to abuse other people, you should be fair and equal.

Everything must be EQUAL. Everything mus be balanced.

Women and Men's rights are Human rights! and Human rights are are Women and Men's rigths also!

So promote awareness to avoid abusive situations like that. We sould be treated equally, always....

Let us all choose to challenge, as challenge comes from change. 

So challenge youself to accept every woman no matter who they are, no matter where they live, and no matter what are their statuses in life. Challenge yourself to call out inequality, and gender biased. Challenge yourself by starting to change how you perceive everything in this world. 

Today as we celebrate the "International Women's day" let us all celebrate and appreciate every women's achievements whether how small it is or how big it is. Let us empower each and everyone and remove hatred for once in a while.   

Cause like what Ntozake Shange said "Where there is woman, there is magic"

A woman who knows her worth and loves herself is a poweful woman.

We are a girl , we are a woman more than what we think. We are worthy.We are beautiful. We are strong. We are capable.  We are enough.

xoxo.