Elijah Nicolle

Photosource:pinterest.ph/pin/1055599903042640/ What do we do to sustain our relationship How do we keep our bond?  How to keep the fire burning? It suck that we tend to end everything up when we experienced some life fucking situations.  Does the number of how long you've been together equate love? Hell NO.  Does miscommunications, arguments equate LOVE? Hell NO.  Love is not always about kisses, roses, and butterflies.  Face the reality itself.  As you grow, your love will also grow in so many different ways, it's a matter of how long you want to choose each other.  It's a matter of how will you gonna help each other overcome that life fucking situations to come up with a solution.  Grow on your own.  Growing on your own is different from growing together, but growing on your own doesn't mean that you're abandoning each other, you cannot always depend yourself to your better half, you should also learn how to grow on your own.  If you'l...

 You said you won't settle for less anymore, you said you already know your worth? But I guess love goggles really can make people blind. Does it sound familiar? I know you already heard it before. What are you doing now? I know you'll do it now or never. It's easy for you to compromise because you already love the person. Just be cautious enough not to hurt yourself anymore. Think about if it's worth fighting for, cause in the end it's you yourself who will save you. 

We will never know when, where, or how our depression will strike. This feeling suck especially when you gotta pretend that you're fine in front of other people because you need to avoid being so dramatic over things that just not makes any sense. For some maybe its nonsense but for you it isn't. I know we all are just trying to survive everyday and we struggle in differently from each other, but there is nothing wrong in letting yourself feel that sadness sometimes. There is nothing wrong in crying sometimes. There is nothing wrong in letting out that heavy feeling in your chest. Who said superheroes can't bleed? Even superheroes can bleed, so you are. 

    photosource:  https://www.pinterest.ph/pin/4503668369902419/ People will hate you if you perceive life differently.  They hate it when its obvious that you can understand everything much deeper, than they can. It sucks, because the society dictates what we should be.  The society sets the standard.  The society tells us what is pretty or not, what is good or bad, and if you defy them, you'll be cancelled. Funny how we got used to this system.  We built our own jail and it's chains are made up of other people's opinion, wanna know how to get out of it?  Just ignore everything.  Sometimes you must also ignore even the greater good.  It's hard to live in a world where you are afraid to step out, where you are afraid to speak up, where you can't express yourself freely.  Today many people are bold enough to speak truth themselves.  They have learned to use their voice.  They have learned to fight for their freedom.  T...

photosource:https://www.pinterest.ph/pin/14496030041814415/ I know I am already in the early stage of adulting. I can already feel it as days goes by, and there comes some times where I space out and think about how did the adults survived everyday living? It so hard to wake up every single day repeating the cycle. Facing adulting is as difficult as facing the reality. It's challenging indeed. It's about how you'll build an empire for your own future. How will you will be able to make history. This will never be easy, so choose to survive everyday. Expect that there'll be ups and downs, so make sure never to lose your track. -ofelijahnicolle, xoxo

                                            photosource:https://www.pinterest.ph/pin/112730796914761360/   Many individuals my age, like myself, are currently experiencing their quarter-life crisis. Confused and unsure about the best path to take. I know it stinks, but some people are having trouble finding work to launch their careers and make enough money to live and support their families. Every woman and man in their 20s is currently experiencing this, and I am aware that everyone of us experiences it in a unique way. It's challenging since we don't always choose the careers we want to because there are many competitors, and because we lack credentials as recent grads, we end up grabbing jobs that are not inclined with our degrees. But let me tell you it's okay. Life is a battle you have to win on your own. No one will g...

Photosource:https://www.pinterest.ph/pin/29695678783789129/      The problem when people put a lot of expectations from you because you were seen as one good person, who excel and win in most of your battles in life. You know it's not your fault, that you created an "unbeatable champ" image on their minds. It is their way of perceiving things who did. Now if you're one of those who's been a consistent achiever all throughout your school years, and suddenly fell off the list, don't be ashamed or don't feel disappointed of not getting something, and not meeting other people's expectation, or your own expectations, as long you know in yourself that you did your best, you enjoyed the journey, you did not step on other people, you've been genuine to all, and most importantly you've learned a lot of lesson. In life, it's either you win or you lose. It's either you achieve or you don't. And take note that not all the time, things will turn...