Elijah Nicolle

  An open letter to all the "Mommy" "mom" "mame" "inay" "nay" "mama" "mamhshi" "mother earth" "mudrakels" out there and of course to my mother, my grandmas, single mothers and to all kinds of mommas all over the world!  Dear mom, mame, mommy, nay, inay, mama, I know being a mother is more than just bearing a child, it is a 24/7 responsibility  and a promise of a lifetime.   I know sometimes there comes a point that you just want to give up, because you super stressed about too many problems, and you feel that you cannot handle things in control anymore, but you always choose to stand up, and fight for your family.  You've always been a resilient one.  Despite of the times of trials, you always choose to be brave, and handle a fake smile to carry on for your children. We may rarely hear you complain about everything, but I know you were all tired physically, mentally and emotionally...

photosource:pinterest  Have you ever experienced planning something but you loose the confidence to execute it?   Like you are planning to start up a business for example. You are so excited at the same time nervous because it is your first time starting a business, and you're starting from scratch, and so because of that, you need to seek for the opinion of other people, you need to know their insights or motivation perhaps, from this thing you are planning, but the moment you asked them, you just suddenly lose the feeling of excitement, and confidence, because they said "Oh good to know, but i think, sooner or later you might get bankrupt" , "Are you sure you'll get profit by that?" , "What if you don't get any customers?" , " I think your business will fail eventually, because you already have a lot of competitors out there"...  After you hear that, those things will probably keep on echoing in your mind, and you'll...

photosource:pinterest  In life you will encounter a lot of people who will test your patience, until they prove everyone that you're wrong.  I don't know why, but i am telling you... if you encounter one of those kind of people, never ever tolerate them. Coz' the more you react, the more they will trigger you. Their goal is to piss you off, until you get so furious and frustrated. Everybody knows what can happen when a certain person is super mad... They tend to do and say things too much, that is out of their minds.  And when you reach that boiling point, they will be so satisfied, because they think they won, but they actually don't.  If you tolerate them you'll just experience loop of your own emotions, that is so useless. You'll just look like a loser, even if you're not.  So what you need to do,  is to ignore, and don't give them a damn. But did you noticed, when you ignore them, they tend to become more aggressive?? It is because they a...

photosource: https://pin.it/53J5ieS They say "Once a cheater always a cheater"  Cheating has been one of the hottest topics lately, around social media.. Let's blog it up. Just some sort of throwback, I've been also cheated on before, I forgave for the nth times, yes, I tolerated it.  And in the end what happened? I was still left in pain, but I chose to stay and make things work again and again every single day, because I love the person so much. They said i'm so "bobo" and so martyr, but I have no choice, I just really love the person so much (before), that's why I chose to forgive, understand, and stay, even if it was repeated for a several times.  You can't blame me, and you can't also blame those people like me (before). Honestly, sometimes because of so much betrayal, I also my found myself in a situation, that I am becoming one of those cheaters. But I reminded myself that revenge is not always the answer.  It will just rui...

Photosource:https://pin.it/7oRy0Az In today’s generation, internet has became our “go to” whenever we want to discover “something” from the past. Of course who would not dare to run to different social media platform when everything is just one click away… But did you know, where this information provided by us with the internet came from?  It’s from primary sources, and it has been passed from generations through generations, that is why we still have it today.    Let’s take a look back in the past, for sure “google” has the answer right away, but I know one source that can really feed our thirsty thoughts about the past! Yup, I knew one! and they witnessed, and experienced it first hand.  Do you want to know who?   Look for your grandma, or grandpa and ask them about their past life experiences, you would be amazed as they start talking, and start to reminisce things from their past. You’ll be flabbergasted  by their endless stories, tha...

Asians are not the virus , HATE is.     As an egalitarian, I am joining this movement not to gain fame, or attention, but to PROMOTE AWARENESS AND FIGHT FOR OUR RIGHTS and STAND THAT ASIANS ARE HUMAN, and WE MUST END RACISM NOW! because hearing and seeing those news, those footages, and those photos  of Asians being attacked, violated, and being a victim of hate crimes, literally hurts so much! I may  not be in their situation but as an Asian it affects me a lot. To those who spread hatred, and create violent attacks to those innocent and harmless asian people, will you please try to put up yourself in their shoes? How would you feel? I literally can't explain what is happening in this world and its people right now, but all I can say is, this is too much.  Let's just all be brave and stand up!  Equality above all!

Photosource: Pinterest Girl.  Woman. How do you describe a girl? How do you describe a woman? They say ah, "She's just a girl."  "Just a woman." "They have so many soft features, they are weak."   Oh really? You know what? You are a girl more than what you and they think. You are a woman,more than having soft features, and being weak. BLAH BLAH. I'm not being obsessed with feminism here but feminism doesn't always make the women strong, it is about tapping everyone to change their way of perceiving the world. Because as you notice? Before, women are being treated so unfair. They can't rule because they are weak. They can't lead, and the only thing they can do is to serve. Serve their husband, serve their children, and be every men's source of entertainment.  So as a woman I question myself, why is it  like that? Is it because men are more masculine than women, so does that mean they are much more stronger?  Maybe in appe...